jjs (30/06/2009)
On the point of the use of “Brother”—I am just curious as to why if you do not consider yourself a Freemason you would bother to post on this site.
I was hoping not to drag this up as it really should not be anyones business, but seeing as you asked.
A potted history. I was a member here for quite a while. I left for three reasons. About 2 years ago, I fell out with some posters (it happens, strong views, sometimes not too politely put on both sides), so every time after that I posted something, one or more person would follow me around to pick to pieces what I said, offer insincere patronising advice or just be abusive. Then, parallel to that I became very ill with complications from gall bladder surgery. Someone (a mason, apparently) thought it would be helpful to write an anonymous email to me wishing me dead. I did not open it. My wife did on my behalf, I was in hospital. It was at that time a unique email account that I used only for correspondence with members here.
That same anonymous person, or maybe persons continued with the abusive messages suggesting I was mad, needing psychological help, or that I should leave the UGLE. This was despite me asking them to stop, on the previous incarnation of this Forum.
So I left this forum, and joined another one. The on-forum messages continued on the new forum from the two "unfriendlies" so I asked them to stop. One of them then used the PM system to continue the abuse. And the anonymous emails continued.
I left the UGLE 31.12.08. Two reasons, I saw no benefit from continuing my journey as I did not like the destination others had reached, and I was really sick of the abuse. I hoped it would stop. Some hope, they just deteriorated into the events described on the other thread, and much more that I have not listed.
So, I returned here, thinking I was hiding for no reason, as the abusive emails arrive regardless. I hope it will shame them into stopping.
I was not aware that membership of a masonic Grand Lodge was pre- requisite to membership of this place. I am sure if I was unwelcome the Admins would have told me to stay away.