I am sorry you feel like that Roy. There is no acrimony on my behalf. I am merely stating the facts as they have occurred. I can not make any suggestion as to the timing of the calls.

It is disappointing though that there has been a distinct "closing of the ranks" on this matter. I am aware as a non Grand Lodge member I am by choice an "outsider" and I am rasing an unpalettable topic, but there seems to be a suggestion that either a) I am making the whole thing up, or b) that I have brought it upon myself.

a) suggests there is a perception that "freemasons" do not behave in the ways I have described

b) contradicts that notion but says its all my fault and I should shut up and take it.

I am not making it up, and I don't think I should shut up and take it.

edit: typo.