Fire Mist (22/11/2009)
I am thinking the difference between the term King or Queen is not a great one, if at all.
... Mistress has many negative connotations at least in this country.
Hmm: When our monarch changed from King to Queen, it altered many things - not the least being the National Anthem. Maybe not a great difference for you, but be careful - English Freemasonry is based in Great Queen Street, London. Great King Street is in Edinburgh!
It's a shame about your negative Mistress connotations: I had several Mistresses in the "First Degree" of my life, and to use a "First Degree" word, they inculcated most of what I knew. ;)