Bob,You are now being a bit touchy... There are a number of things that take a bit of getting used to on forums such as this. Believe me I have had a rocky ride myself.
The first thing to learn is that what you type is not what others read!!! No kidding you can write something quite simple and very clear to you and someone out there will read it in quite a different way. And very often take offence when none was meant.
Its all to do with the fact that you cannot see, and have quite often never met, the person reading your posts. One cannot hear the 'tone of voice' in your posting nor see the 'look in your eye'
I have had some real clashes with forumites on here and when I met them 'in the flesh' they were the nicest of chaps even if the occasional one is in error about stuff like Festive Boards, Emulation Ritual, Ladies who call themselves Brother, sausage rolls and Cliff Richard!
You have to learn the art of reading what is intended and not what it says in front of you. And you have to learn to give & take.. and try your very very best NEVER to 'Shoot From The Hip' ....
It really is a very good forum and most of the regular contributors are really good people.
After all they are Masons...and you may find yourself sitting beside them at a Festive Board near you someday.
Stay cool, stay here, keep contributing... and buy your own regalia.... I did....
Stephen